The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #156? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This Week’s [...]

Jay and I will be visiting New York this week. Starting today, actually. The agenda for the trip is to have fun and hang out with perverts. If you are a fun pervert, be in touch. I know that I will be at Druken, Careening Writers and In the Flesh at various times on Thursday [...]

Sometimes things go missing on my computer for awhile and I unearth them. This picture is an example of that, I really need a better filing system:

The Hitachi Magic Wand is often referred to as the Cadillac of vibrators. I think that description is erroneous because “Cadillac” implies a certain level of prestige and conspicuous consumption. I don’t think that the Hitachi implies that at all. It is simple, inelegant, and packs an enormous amount of power. Really, it is like [...]

Sabrina has re-launched her brilliant blog Full Frontal Politics with an incisive and spot-on article about the Australian Supreme Court’s decision to convict a man on child pornography charges for possessing drawn images of Simpsons characters engaging in sexual acts. Okay. Let’s put our niche porn marketing hats on here and shine the red light of [...]

I am sort of embarrassed to admit that until recently, I didn’t have a decent blindfold. I know, I know, what sort of kinky pervert am I without a blindfold. I did have a great collection of sleep masks from transatlantic flights that had been standing in for a proper blindfold, but I was pretty [...]

There are days when I crave his words more than his touch. Exhibit, a series of instant messages from Michael that left me gasping: Fuck me until I cry. Fuck me until I pass out and keep fucking me until you’re done. Fuck me like I’ll die when you let go. Fuck me until your name is a prayer [...]

The Buzz 1 is a great little realistic silicone dildo. I was impressed with the shape of the head, in particular and the fact that it comes with a bullet vibe to convert it to a vibrator readily. I played with the Buzz 1 and found the shape and size incredibly satisfying. It occupies that not [...]

Cheap BDSM Toys is a pretty clever site. It is designed to identify the original uses of some toys that are sold for a high markup in many adult shops. According to the site’s main description: Many sex toys are manufactured for other purposes. They can often be purchased for much less than the sex stores [...]

I’ll be the first to admit that I’ve always been sort of skeptical about Liberator products. I’ve seen them advertised and touted for a long time, even by people whose opinions I really trust (like Tristan Taormino) but I still didn’t get it. I’ll admit it, I thought they were overglorified pillows. It isn’t easy [...]

My gut reaction when I read about Natural Harvest, a cookbook of semen-based recipes was that I had found something that even I found a bit beyond the pale. And then I thought about it more and I’m sort of intrigued. Anyone out there cook with semen before? ***** Vibe the Vote: Save 10% on Your Order [...]

The We-Vibe The makers of the We-Vibe were kind enough to send me one a few months ago and I’ve been thinking a lot about it ever since. Let me start by telling you the procedural things about it. It is a dual-stimulation vibrator that is meant to be worn during hetero intercourse. The smaller end [...]

Pleasure Tops from Babeland This is a very unique toy that mimics the shape of a high-end toy like The Cone (which I haven’t tried but have always been curious about). As far as I can tell, though, Pleasure Top actually goes farther because it includes a well-engineered clit stimulating thumb on the side. When I first [...]

It is a detached brand of frantic that I’m channelling as I watch the eggs poach. I fiddle with the gas, poke at one with a slotted spoon and furrow my brow. Ariel’s sister comes in the kitchen and hands me a champagne cocktail and I distractedly thank her. I begin to lift the eggs [...]

Cyberglass Felicity from VibeReview Cool, smooth, and unyielding. I’ll be the first to admit that I’m a slut for glass toys. I wasn’t always that way, I used to think they would be too hard or pokey or something would go wrong. But, the Felicity is my second glass toy and I’m officially a convert to [...]

Most people that read this blog know that I have an intense relationship with music. My podcast started out being about sex and music and the level to which I sexualize music is pretty clear if you listen to episodes of it. But, I’ve never really written about the stumbling blocks I’ve had with music [...]

Fun Factory Paul and Paulina from VibeReview I have had a difficult relationship in my life with rabbit-style vibrators. The first one I owned had perfect girth but the ears were a bit too firm and pokey and the pearls inside were awkward almost to the point of painful. The next I tried was the Lovely [...]

The breath catches in my throat as I feel the fullness slide into me.  I feel the sudden urge to survey the scene from outside of my own body and look at Jay and Michael who are surrounding us. Then I look directly up at Ariel and see her eyes shut and lips parted. My [...]

Fukuoku 9000 from Babeland The Fukuoku 9000 is one of the Babeland All-Stars and a very popular personal massager with a cult following. It works quite simply and is designed to slip over your fingertip. The vibe includes 3 interchangeable sleeves with different textures. As far as straight-up performance, the Fukuoku worked quite well. It has a [...]

The warm water is pounding down on us as we stand facing each other. His hair isn’t quite yet wet and I can see the droplets of water accumulating slowly and persistently as he looks back at me. His hands are on my arms and his voice is insistent and forceful but entirely controlled. He [...]