Letters from Johns: I Was Smitten “when I started my next relationship, I would long for and expect the sexual competence and freedom that prostitutes often provided.” Pornocracy / I Need a Seat Cushion For Posts Like This “he invited me to explore the phenomenon further by getting caned while he tickled me” roughwords: Fiction - The Strand “And then [...]

This is the back of the harness that Artemis put on me. She did beautiful weaving on the back so that I would be able to lay down on it and not have any knots digging in. After getting the harness in place I was molested. Significantly. Implements used included a violet wand, an e-stim kit, [...]

I have a lot of things to say about what happened last weekend. I had a play date with Artemis Hunter and a wicked sadist that involved upwards of 4 cases of sex toys and kink props. I was a demo bottom for Artemis during her class on predicament bondage. We ended the weekend by [...]

We met for drinks a few months ago and then schedules got tight and new jobs were started and we lost touch. Carmine found me again a few weeks ago, telling me that he wanted to see me. So we met for drinks and talked about school and teaching and the law. We also talked about [...]

So, this is sort of cool, apparently if I write posts that are tangentially about blogging they get voted to the top. I remember the first Sugasm (it was called Bloggasm then and I was one of the first few entries) it is really cool to see it keep growing. The best of this week’s blogs [...]

Uncool: The value of erotic blogging “erotic blogs [...] exist to boost the autor’s self-esteem at the expense of the reader. I don’t think these types of blog have much longevity, and whilst numerous they are not terribly popular or memorable.” (tags: blogging sexblogs) village voice sex naked city - Five Terrible Substitutes for Lube “If you’re going to [...]

The South is my adopted home but I don’t always get along with Southerners. Most of my friends here are other Northern transplants, but I know my fair share of people born and bred in the dirty dirty. Ian is one of those people. He has a mild twang in his voice, he is exceedingly [...]

Tomorrow night I have a pretty fabulous play date. I am blissfully in the dark about what will be happening to me. However, I know there will be rope skillfully applied by a brilliant artist. There will also be a wicked sadist, giving a generous dose of pain. I’ve been asked to bring my toy [...]

Pornocracy / Quickie Blog Prompt From FetLife Elizabeth presents a really unique perspective on the relationship between her S&M activities and her faith. We don’t often see Christianity and flogging mentioned in the same sentence. Especially not on a sex blog. (tags: religion, flogging, bdsm, theory) Mommy Has A Headache: Telling the truth about sex “What’s your policy? [...]

The Lovely Rose is a gorgeous dual-stimulation, rabbit-style vibrator. Made of translucent red material, and carved into floral shapes, it looks like something like a fairy wand that you would give a child to play dress-up with. But, it isn’t, it is designed to put inside your cunt and have a good solid orgasm with. So, [...]

Looks like I’ve made the top 3 spots on Sugasm this week. Isn’t that special? ;) Oh, and Fleshbot has a picture of me fellating a sex toy. You know, because I’m classy like that. The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm [...]

“You’re going to write an angry blog entry about this, aren’t you? Or a Twitter?” “No, I don’t do that.” “I feel really bad.” I can’t see his eyes because he is wearing mirrored sunglasses. I feel exposed. Realizing that impending tears are stinging at my eyes, I wish I had a pair of my own. “It’s fine, really.” “I’ll [...]

These are some of my favorite panties. They are simple and cotton and cute. And I like how my ass looks in them. I don’t have any particular memories of them (although I’m sure they have been peeled off of me during a variety of sexy moments.) I just know I like them a lot. Sad [...]

I’ve been keeping this blog for ages now (at least in blog years 3.5 is a really long time). It means a lot to me, it has enriched my life, introduced me to amazing people, taught me new things. I have confidence that I never had before and community to be a part of. The interesting [...]

To hear a live review of this toy, listen to Bedroom Radio #18. The Silver Bullet is a real powerhouse of a vibrator that has me impressed. When I first picked it up I was skeptical. It looked a little flimsy and plain. What could this possibly do next to the impressive and expensive sex toys [...]

A few days ago I was thinking. I was also being fingered. Neither of those two occurrences are peculiar in isolation but they are usually independent of each other. Nonetheless, as Jay slid one hand under me to cup my ass and deftly worked at my pussy with the fingers of his remaining hand, I [...]

These Door Jam Cuffs don’t look like much out of the package but turned out to be surprisingly functional. They work quite simply without any fussy installation or need for hardware. A serious bondage enthusiast would probably have more severe and effective restraints in their repertoire but if you are interested in getting started, these [...]

Download Episode #18 of Bedroom Radio In this episode I interview Artemis Hunter, a fantastic rope artist from Atlanta, GA and review the very powerful Silver Bullet vibrator from Vibe Review. Contact Me Like This: Email: bedroomradio@gmail.com Voicemail: 206-339-5939 Website: bedroomradio.blogspot.com Blog: www.lumpesse.com More More More: Twitter Subscribe Smoking Hot Phone Sex Sex Toys and Vibrator Reviews at VibeReview

I had been waiting to try the Snugglepuss for awhile. I read tons of rave reviews. I love dual stimulation toys and this one looked particularly interesting. The Snugglepuss from Vibe Review is designed to be a hands-free toy, the larger portion is inserted and rests against the G-spot while the small part sits on [...]

I was having a chat with Nobilis, and he asked me that question. It seems like a simple question but it hit me hard and I wondered about it immediately. When I started blogging over 3 years ago I had many reasons - excitement, exhibitionism, and a big dose of validation. Yep, I said it, I [...]