Black man's blind date rules were inspired by viewing the television show Blind Date, in which numerous men play themselves in order to gain the attention and affection of women. As the saying goes... you have only one chance at making a first impression, and it’s sad to say many men end up making complete fools of themselves in one way or another. Everything from stripping down naked, singing, dancing,...

While it may seem pretty simple to understand why women who are lonely and seeking any form of affection from the opposite sex routinely find themselves having non-committed sexual flings, flings themselves are still detrimental to the psyche. Although a women may go into a fling agreeing to the terms, the fling itself will still leave not only emotional scars, but can plant seeds of bitterness that will taint future relationships for years to come.

Why is it that so many parents are afraid to say the word no! to their children? I've observed parents being kicked, punched, screamed at, called names and talked to with disrespect, and whined half to death by their bratty, spoiled monsters. They plead and negotiate and bribe instead of taking decisive command. Why don't these parents have the strength to tell their children to stop screaming, stop acting a fool, and do right it now because...

Compromise is a very interesting word with very interesting definitions: something accepted rather than wanted; potential danger or disgrace; a settlement of a dispute in which two or more sides agree to accept less than they originally wanted. In life, we are sometimes forced to make compromises. Some are small, while others can be life changing or lead to misery. Make sure your compromises are not detrimental to your mental or emotional health! Here's how...

This week we celebrate the birth of our nation. How time flies and things change! Remember Rosa Parks? For those that don't know, that simple denial by an exhausted woman to get up and give her seat on the bus to a White man on December 1, 1955 was the spark which ignited the Civil Rights Movement of the 1960s. Fast forward 50 years...interracial relationships are now commonplace instead...

Women often enter into relationships thinking hmm, he has this wrong, and I sure wish that was different... but I can change him, then he'll be perfect! But men enter into relationships hoping the woman they fell in love with NEVER changes. He wants things to stay just as they are. He wants to feel the way he does right now about her and the relationship forever! Let's explore this interesting gender conflict.