It has been a little quiet here lately so I thought I would let everyone know the other things I have been up to both on and offline. Top 100 Sexy Bloggers of 2008 - I was honored to be named #5 on this amazing list of blogs compiled by Rori. I was stunned by the [...]

“I wish you had a cock,” he says. I turn while continuing to fasten my bra. He is sitting up in bed now, sleepy-headed. I’m looking around for a clean shirt to wear. “Oh?” “Yeah,” he explains, “I was invited to a gang bang and I wish you could come.” I laugh. “Plus if you had a cock, we could [...]

I’m on my back, bound. The harness holds me in firmly, my arms are bound to my thighs and Arte has a wicked grin on her face. She is playing stupid, acting like a mad scientist, telling me that she has a new contraption to test on me. As I’m writing about it now, the [...]

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. This Week’s Picks Bush Rides Again: Birth Control Defined as “Abortion”? “The reason you tweak laws, redefining them or broadening their definitions, is to create the opportunity for a legal climate in which challenges may better [...]

This is another in my series of interviews with men about masculinity. Michael was kind enough to submit his answers to me and his reflections are largely about his youth and upbringing. I was especially interested in the distinctions that Michael drew between bodily and emotional strength. The way these ideas work in the context of [...]

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So, as I mentioned last week, we received an impromptu invitation to join Artemis for a play and rope education weekend. We had a fabulous time. I did my first needle scene and Jay was suspended. I also got tied up by Arte in a gorgeous harness. When this woman calls herself an erotic facilitator, [...]

Download Bedroom Radio #21 On this episode I interview Sinclair of Sugarbutch Chronicles. We discuss gender, butch/femme identity, bdsm, and erotic blogging. You’ll also be treated to an incredibly sexy piece of erotica read by Sinclair. ************************ Contact Me Like This: Email: bedroomradio@gmail.com Voicemail: 206-339-5939 Website: bedroomradio.blogspot.com Blog: www.lumpesse.com More More More: Twitter Subscribe Smoking Hot Phone Sex Sex Toys and Vibrator Reviews at [...]

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Jay and I tried the Neo Love Ring together in several different configurations over the last few weeks. We talked about it and I thought I would just let you read the chat logs: Ellie: So, what did you think of that vibrating cock ring? Jay: Good stuff. It’s already served many purposes. Ellie: Any that I don’t [...]

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So I’m frantically getting ready for the new term at school so I’ve been a bit quiet. However, Jay has posted a few great blog entries this week. First, he did a HNT post for the first time. Exhibit: He also wrote this gorgeous post about our play with Hania last week. Sigh. I will certainly [...]

Download Episode #20 of Bedroom Radio (15MB, 24 minutes) In this episode, I interview the amazing, prolific Rachel Kramer Bussel about her new book Spanked. We talk about our favorite ways to give and get spankings and she reads a very hot excerpt from the book. Be sure to listen to learn about your chance to win [...]

Take note! You can get a 10% discount on your order at Vibe Review if you shop through this link! I picked the Charmer one key reason, it is slender. See, Jay has a tight little butt and he worries about toys that are big. So we stick to small ones at our house and are [...]

This is another in my series of interviews with men about masculinity. Like several of the other men interviewed, Jerry has an interest in BDSM. He expresses both joy and conflict arising from this part of his sexuality. The urge to define what authentic or “real” masculinity is appears in this narrative. It seems like [...]

Spanking is a big part of my sexual repertoire. There is a lot to be said for using your bare hands but sometimes you need something that packs a bit more sting. The Rainbow Nights paddle is an elegant answer to that problem. The first thing you’ll notice about this paddle is the elegant embroidery and [...]

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Take note! You can get a 10% discount on your order at Vibe Review if you shop through this link! As a general rule, I try to keep lube out of my mouth. So when I was asked to try O’My Flavoured I was concerned that I wasn’t the best candidate. So, what did I do? [...]

I met Hania at the beginning of the summer. She burst into my dry and repressive summer class with so much energy and enthusiasm that it was hard not to be a bit annoyed at 8:30 in the morning. When we got assigned to do a group project together, I didn’t know what to expect. Sometime [...]