I stay away from a lot of feminist blogs because, well, reading them often hurts my soul. In fact other than perusing Feministing and Feministe, I leave it up to Ren, Trinity, Amber, and Caroline to keep my up to date on what is happening vis-a-vis sex and feminism. These ladies have the patience of [...]

There is a certain pervert around here that is obsessed with over the knee socks. Last night at the store, I saw a precious pink and purple pair that I thought would go great with Mary Janes. So I got them. Cute, huh? You can even see cat paws at the top of the photo [...]

This is part of my ongoing series of interviews with men on masculinity. I am sorry for the long hiatus in posting these. The travel I have been doing has gotten in the way a bit. This interview is actually with a kinky, female, top who has been one of the most steadfast commenter on this [...]

We have been home from Dark Odyssey Summer Camp for two weeks now and I haven’t said much about it. I’ve been processing my thoughts but I have a list of posts that I want to write about the experience. A lot happened there. I met Wendy, a longtime blog friend that is even more [...]

When I first heard about the Fukuoku vibrating glove I instantly knew it was a really good idea. I enjoy massage and I enjoy vibrations. There is no reason that these things shouldn’t go together. Packaging it all in the form of a glove was just too ingenious to pass up. The glove is not meant [...]

This weekend Jay and I travelled to the Fetish Fair Flea Market in Charlotte to present a class on Kinky Phone Sex for Couples. We had a great time and met some great friends that we had previously only known online. Catalina and Marky were kind enough to open their home to us and we [...]

Some situations beg for subtlety. Vibrations on my clitoris tend to be one of them. I had heard amazing things about Lelo products and knew was expecting big things from this toy. The Nea has amazing packaging that had be instantly intrigued.  It came in a vivid purple outer box and a black display box that [...]

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #149? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This Week’s [...]

Jay and I went shopping today. The plan was to buy some new shoes but I ended up trying on bras and tops. I like what this one does for me. In fact I like it so much that I think I’ll go take some pictures with just the bra. ***** Vibe the Vote: Save 10% on [...]

In literary studies there is a concept of writing “for the drawer”. It refers to writing that was done in a historical period or within a socio-political situation that did not allow for it to be published or even openly shared. Some of the greatest literary works produced in early Stalinist Russia were not published [...]

Goliath is an intimidating name for a dildo isn’t it? I guess “Perfect Silicone Cock That Fills You Up Just Right” was too long to fit on the package. But, that is how I feel about the Goliath. Is it big? Yes. I was actually a bit alarmed when I first saw it. I held it [...]

Almost anyone that is into BDSM and sensation play has seen one of these spiky metal toys before but the rest of you may be a bit confused by it. Allow me to introduce you to the Wartenberg Wheel, a compact and versatile addition to your toy bag. This pinwheel is stainless steel and has a [...]

Many of my friends and acquaintances in New York are launching a new project, The NYC Sex Bloggers 2009 Calendar. This project benefits Audacia Ray’s Sex Work Awareness Project, a very worthy cause. The people included are some of NYC’s best sex-positive writers, educators, and film makers and the calendar promises to be something special. Who [...]

I can’t believe how exhausted I still am after 10 hours of sleep. Holy crap I have a lot of email. # Google Reader just says 1000+. . . Thinking I should just mark all read and move on with my life. # Adding camp people to my Google Reader account. Reid Mihalko. . . so fucking [...]

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Just finished a fun sensation scene that I co-topped with Jay. Later I am working in the "brothel". # The brothel was amazing. I can’t believe how much it was like phone calls with clients. # Spent much of the day so far lounging in the pool. Looking forward to Lolita’s class on ageplay in a bit. [...]

These posts are an experiment in time travel. I wrote them and scheduled them ahead of time. But, I should still have access to comments and Twitter messages. This is the last of these posts as we’ll be driving home on Monday and hopefully you’ll hear from me by Tuesday. Today is the last day of [...]

Evening included chore duty and a knife scene. There was a cherry! Tommorrow Jay and I are getting mummified together. # Just watched a game of butt plug ring toss. Today is beautiful, I hope that the weather holds. # ***** Win $1200 of Sex Toys from Babeland!.

These posts are an experiment in time travel. I wrote them and scheduled them ahead of time. But, I should still have access to comments and Twitter messages. One of the big opportunities of camp are the huge parties that promote sexual expression and group interraction. Basically, I am hoping for an orgy today and I [...]

The best of this week’s blogs by the bloggers who blog them. Highlighting the top 3 posts as chosen by Sugasm participants. Want in Sugasm #147? Submit a link to your best post of the week by emailing me directly at radicalvixenatgmaildotcom Participants, repost the link list within a week and you’re all set. This Week’s [...]