I’ve gotten several emails asking questions like, “Should I pay for dates?” and “How do I avoid paying for dates?” The answer that I’m going to propose is almost misleading in its simplicity, but hey… those are my favorite kind… DON’T GO OUT ON “TRADITIONAL DINNER DATES” ANYMORE. See, if you don’t go out on “take her out [...]

***QUESTION*** I have been using your techniques for the past month and my “popularity” is soaring. I would like to thank you for finally saying what I have thought for years. Here is my question. About 5 years ago I used to go to this bar and there was a server that I was just [...]

>>>QUESTION OF THE WEEK: Dave, You are a saint. A giant among insects… Ok, maybe not, but it gets through the obligatory ass-kissing since you have helped me so much. Let me begin… I’ve had my eyes on this particular girl for quite some time, and I could tell she was already into me quite a bit, [...]

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER*** Dave, Why is it that a woman who is only interested in the funny, cocky and challenging (i.e., interesting) men, later in life tries to raise sons that are sweet, thoughtful and “nice”? (i.e., run of the mill)!! WS New York >>>MY COMMENTS: This is a VERY interesting question, and I’m glad you [...]

***QUESTION*** Hey Dave, how’s it hanging? Read your stuff…interesting. Makes a lot of sense to appear different then all the others. I have one question, however. This C&F stuff (can I call it “friendly mocking”?) really only works on women who are sure of themselves and who will nottake your jokes to the heart. But how many [...]

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER*** Dear David, I am a subscriber to your newsletter, and will soon download your e-book and/or your CD. I like what you write and I already learned a lot, I believe. But lately you were dealing with a subject intriguing me more than others: why do women leave men. Which triggered my [...]

You’ve probably noticed that I don’t talk about the idea of “romance” very often. There’s a good reason for this. I think that most guys use romance in completely the wrong way, and in the process screw up their chances with the woman that they are interested in. I’m going to take some time here to talk about [...]

***QUESTION*** ok here is the deal… I’m 23, 5′7″ and a relatively good looking and successful fashion designer. i don’t date to much, and because of my usually respectful mannerism i don’t get laid too often and usually end up in that “gay friend” category. but I’ve kinda got my eye on a cutie who works at [...]

DATING QUESTION FROM A READER: I have recently started to like this girl a lot. We hang out almost everyday, and everybody that is around us say that we act like we are going out. We flirt all of the time, but i dont want to be the one that admits that i like her [...]

***DATING QUESTION FROM A READER*** Hi, I just want to say that I’ve had tremendous success and confidence with women after reading your stuff… I feel like I understand them so well. You really do know your sh**! I guess it shoulda been obvious that teasing women and acting cocky was the way to [...]